A boner is an erect blood filled penis. It is a slang word for an erection and it usually occur when a man is sexually excited or aroused although in some cases it can happen when while he is a sleep, watching TV or in class. There are several things that lead to a man having a boner. The most notable one is the thought of having sexual intercourse with his partner but this is not limited to his partner alone. It can as well apply to any woman that comes his way. There are some men who can have a boner when they look at a woman’s underwear or when they just think of a woman naked.

Men can boner easily especially when they want to have sex unlike women who take quite sometime before feeling the urge to have intercourse. For women, a little bit of foreplay is needed for them to gather the steam that will drive them to feel like having intercourse. This is the reason why most women do not reach orgasm not unless the partners have done a lot of foreplay for at least 20 minutes. During intercourse, when the man’s penis does not stimulate properly the clitoris of a woman, it will be difficult for her to reach orgasm. It is crucial for men to know the parts of a woman that propel her to orgasm.

Since men can boner any time, it means that during intercourse they are supposed to be the ones who control the action. They should be able to make their partners receive their share of orgasm if they would want to enjoy every moment of the lovemaking.   There are health problems that may prevent a man from getting a boner and most of these are treatable. Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) can also prevent men from getting boner.